Understanding Stress and Burnout for Young Caregivers
“I don’t know how you do it!”
If this is something you hear from other people on a regular basis, you might be a young caregiver for your loved one. As a young caregiver, you offer vital support to someone. Either through daily personal care, household tasks, financial management, extensive emotional support, or all the above. On top of this, you are managing the other important aspects of your life. For example, pursuing academia, advancing your career, and managing your dating life.
We know there are a lot of rewarding parts to caregiving! However, being on-call to tend to your loved ones' needs while managing the intense pressures of your 20s or 30s can feel impossible sometimes. And because you’re young, you may even feel the expectations that you can handle everything. Or that you can even take on more because of your young age. As a young caregiver therapist in Toronto, ON, I am here to support you on a journey towards a balanced life with young caregiver counselling.
Common Symptoms of Problematic Stress Among Young Caregivers
The strain of caregiving can look different for everyone, but here are some common symptoms of stress that young caregivers might face:
Chronic Fatigue: Feeling constantly emotionally and physically exhausted with little to no recovery
Feelings of overwhelm: most caregiving tasks start to feel unmanageable
Heightened Irritability: it doesn’t take much to feel annoyed or angered by others, including the loved one you’re caring for.
Withdrawal from activities you normally enjoy: you’ve noticed that you’re avoiding friends or social activities because of the demands of caregiving.
Physical symptoms: developing issues like headaches, digestive issues, insomnia, aches, and pain. (If you want to learn more about how stress can impact the physical body, read the blog here).
Difficulty concentrating: having trouble focusing on your day-to-day tasks
Neglecting your own needs: easily putting your own care on the back burner so you’re able to fully address the care needs of your loved one.
Remember, tending to the negative effects of caregiver stress means developing a mindful awareness of your symptoms. This list can be a good basic understanding of potential symptoms of caregiver burnout. You can also reflect on your day! Try identifying where you experience the most difficulty of burnout.
Reflection Questions for Exploring Young Caregiver Stress
By working with a young caregiver therapist or journaling on your own, I encourage you to ask these questions as you reflect on your day:
When am I feeling the most overwhelmed in my day?
At what moments am I feeling the most distracted, like I can’t complete a basic task?
When am I experiencing physical pain, like headaches, stomach pain, or muscle aches?
When am I feeling the most impatient with my loved one (is it when I am trying to help them with a specific task, or a certain time of the day?)
Which nights am I experiencing the most insomnia or changes in my regular sleep patterns? Was there something specific that happened this particular day that might have caused a lack of sleep?
When am I experiencing feelings of hopelessness or helplessness?
By getting to know your most intense struggles with caregiving and the other demands in your lives, you can start to recognize where you might need to step back. As well as draw boundaries, adjust your own expectations, and reach out for help at MK Counselling and Psychotherapy.
Addressing Young Caregiver Stress in Toronto, ON
Once you’ve started to identify your symptoms, and pinpointed the most difficult parts of your caregiver experience, you can start to take steps toward making your caregiving stress more manageable:
Recognize your capacity: Keeping up a daily or weekly check-in with yourself can help you recognize and identify your own limits as a caregiver. You are not a robot and require close tending in order to fulfill your role as a caregiver. The saying is true: “You need to put your own oxygen mask on first before you can help others.”
Set expectations with yourself and others: Let people know how you might be struggling with your caregiving and other responsibilities. People can often assume that young caregivers are “strong” and don’t need to be supported. It’s important you tell people that you really do need support, whether it’s an occasional check-in or assistance with managing part of the caregiving load.
Connect with organizations: Access educational or practical resources through organizations like Ontario Caregiver Organization, and Young Caregivers Connect. As well as your local Alzheimer’s Society, or Home and Community Care Support Services.
Join a support group: This is a great way to reduce isolation and connect with other caregivers who can relate to what you’re going through. It’s also a great way to learn tips caregiving and stress management tips.
Connect with a therapist: Talking with a stress and burnout therapist in Toronto, ON regularly can provide a safe space to express your frustrations without judgment.
Get Started with Young Caregiver Therapy in Toronto, ON Today
By working with a burnout therapist in Toronto, ON, you can understand how you experience stress symptoms. In addition to staying attuned to your caregiving capacity, develop new and helpful coping strategies. Young caregiver therapy is one of the many ways to stay healthy and continue supporting your loved one. To get started, look at my blog on How to Find the Right Therapist. Connect with me today to book your free 15-minute consultation to see if we’re a good fit.
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I offer customized services at Michelle Kent Counselling and Psychotherapy to meet your unique needs. I empathize with the demands of work life and am dedicated to helping you navigate and overcome stress. In addition to young caregiver therapy, I offer stress and burnout therapy, grief counselling, and more.
